Just a word of advice, folks. I don’t care if you’ve been crossdressing for decades or days – if you decide to take a break and then you suddenly pick up again, don’t be upset when you get shot down for nookie if your timing is awful.
For example – my house is a wreck. My kid is a toddler – an adventurous, climbing-on-everything-saying-NO-AllTheTime, tantrum-throwing toddler. I am pregnant and hairy and nauseous and fat. I haven’t had time to dye my hair in MONTHS. I’m working on TWO BOOKS simultaneously while being a stay-at-home-mom AND juggling all the cooking/housework/etc.
Interrupting me during the VERY little relaxation time I have in a day because you suddenly want nookie due to picking up your dressing again?
No.
Just… no.
Timing, ladies and gentlemen. Timing is everything.
That is all.
Sorry to hear it’s all gone a bit squiffy. I hope things clear up soon!
Toddlers? They can be draining, but very cute at the same time…. especially if you send them off with Dad for a while and you get a long soak in the bath.
Lynn
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Melly, bless her, had a 2.5 hour soak when she decided to don the dress again. Shaved everything, didn’t wipe out the tub. She felt bad about it later, when I reminded her that my pelvis won’t let me climb into the tub and scrub on hands and knees right now, but the irritation remained. Especially since our toddler bathes with me, so I haven’t had a hot bath in a year and a half, and the only baths I have that last more than 20 minutes are when I feel like letting the little man play with his boats. So, needless to say, I’m more than a little jealous and irritated.
Well said, truly said, and enough said.
Alas.
Best wishes however, for the books and the hair.
Worthy struggles, both.
Very fondly, P