HI! Thank you so much for being willing to tell the world what’s going on with you. Here’s what I’m looking for.
What I’d like is your story in a nutshell - long, short, however you want to phrase it or write it, with or without labels, whatever. I’d like to know about your early life in the CD/TG world, how you told your friends/family/work, and how they took it. If you’ve got kids, I’d like to know a little about how you’re raising them with you as a CD/TG. And I’d like to know how you feel about the future… optimistic, I’d assume! 
Finally, if you’ve got any advice for those who are recently coming out, I think that would be a nice way to tie up the post.
Also - and don’t feel you have to do this if you don’t want to - if you have any friends or family who might be willing to do the same thing and give their side of your “coming out” to them (parents and spouses or kids and best friends, whatever), that would especially useful since a lot of this site is about helping the families of CD/TG folks realize that it’s not the end of the world and their
relationships can still move on and grow to be truly amazing no matter what gender issues are present.
Then, when you’re ready and you think everything’s been said that you want to say, you can send the story using the contact form.
There are only a few guidelines:
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Keep it clean
. I expect there will be family members coming here now and then because Daddy is dressing like Mommy lately, so try not to curse. I make this mistake every now and then, but I am trying to keep it to a minimum. Please do the same.
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Keep it to the point
. I know that it’s tempting to rant now and again about how badly the world treats the CD/TG community but this site isn’t for soapboxes. We all know the CD/TG aren’t accepted completely yet, but that’s what The Crossdresser’s Wife is here to help fix.
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Keep it “short”
. By “short” I mean less than five pages (single spaced) in a Word document. I know it’s tempting to tell your whole life story but if it’s TOO long I’ll have to cut it up into segments. If the story is worth it I’ll happily do so, but try and remember that lots of people can’t stare at the screen that long without their eyes watering uncontrollably. The five pages is a maximum guideline. If you go over by a paragraph or two I won’t throw a fit, but try and keep it succinct.
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- Keep it honest
. No lying. I don’t care if you’ve got the best story on the face of the planet - if it seems to be fake in any way, it’s not getting posted.
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- Keep it porno free
. This, I’ve found, apparently needs to be coupled with number four up there. This is a site for people who ACTUALLY ARE crossdressers, not people who want their wives to dress them up. If you turn out to ACTUALLY BE a crossdresser AND you happen to want your wife to dress you up, good for you, I hope you have many happy adventures in the bedroom. Otherwise, I am not accepting fiction where you tell me all about your wife force feminizing you and how helpless and turned on you felt by that. There are forums for those stories already out there and this site only barely touches on the sexual aspect of crossdressing, if at all. Got it?
Now, if you think you can follow all those rules, then welcome to guest posting! If you’d like me to include a link back to your web page, then include it in the email. Welcome aboard!
Sincerely,
TheWife
